Our Boracay babymoon!

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As we were doing all the plannings to welcome our first child in Nov, one thing that was in the plan was a babymoon. Babymoon officially marks the last holiday that we can have before entering parenthood. Once we become parents, true, we can still travel without our child, but it will never be the same again.

We allocated a 1k budget per pax for hotel+flight, for a 4D3N getaway and not more than 4-5 hours of flight time. We were really torn between going for a beach getaway or a city. Since I don’t think I have the energy to shop much, I opted for a beach destination. And after much consideration, we chose Boracay, Philippines, which we have not been before. It was also voted the best beach by Trip Adviser in 2013!

*Note: All the activities I did here may not be suitable for all pregnant women. Consult your gynae in advance and also inform the people conducting the activities.

We flew by Silkair, which has a stopover at Cebu before flying to Boracay (Kalibo airport). Although it is like the only international flight that flies to Boracay airport, the next time I would fly by the budget airlines like Tiger and Airasia instead, as they fly direct.

It is also my first time taking Silkair. I would say thumbs up to the yummy food and crew service. But the cabin was not as clean, and leg room limited. There were no individual entertainment TV screen, but you can actually use the in-flight Wi-Fi to watch movies using smartphones and tablets.

SIN-KLO (breakfast)

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KLO-SIN

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By the time we reached Boracay, it was nearly night time. There was a flight delay into Kalibo airport, and also a land transfer of 1.5hrs followed by boat ride of 15mins. And finally from the Catician jetty to the hotel took another 15mins. It was pretty exhausting! Checked into our hotel- Boracay Mandarin Island hotel, which is considered on the higher end. It is located on station 2. Btw, Boracay is quite a small island, and segregated into station 1, 2 and 3. Stations 1 and 2 are the most happening.

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Their boats are all quite unique. I think to accommodate the shallow waters.2014-06-28 10.37.16

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Our room with balcony

We had a simple dinner of crab and tiger prawns, and I think it was a rip-off. In fact, don’t expect the food to be cheap there, as we spent almost S$50 on each meal for the 2 of us. There was not much shopping to do as well. Most of our money are spent on food, massages and activities heh. We ended the day chilling at one of the beach pub. Of cos, my hubby had beer, which was cheap, and poor me can only have fruit juice, which was mediocre. Btw, most pubs are actually on the beach itself, which is pretty unique.

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Craving for some chocolate crepe.

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Day 2

We went for the island hopping tour the next day. We were greeted by the stunning white beach! The sea has gradient colors! Now the traveling to get here was all worth it. We went to a few surrounding islands (Crystal cove island, Puka beach, Crocodile island, Tambisaan beach), which was really pretty. And i attempted a maternity photoshoot, which was not very successful haha.

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View outside our hotel (white beach)

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Anticipating our island hopping tour2014-06-27 10.59.00There is a separate entry fee for this place.

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Star fish from the sea bed.

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There are seriously so many activities to do at Boracay. Like banana boat, jet ski, fly fish, parachuting, snorkeling etc.

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Can you see the parachutes in the background?

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Banana boat going to the ocean.

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Helmet diving booth

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Parasailing.

We got back to the hotel to freshen up and were exhuasted. Especially for me, since although the boat ride was quite calm, we actually visited quite a few islands, which was physically taxing for my pregnancy body. My hubby also did snorkeling while I watched. We had one of the best dinner there-at this Greek restaurant CYMA (near D’Mall, Station 2). After that, we planned to go for more exploring at D’mall. But alas, it started drizzling and pouring. It actually rained quite abit when we were there.

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It is actually a pretty small restaurant, thus, there may be a queue.

We ordered the famous fire cheese, which goes nicely with pita bread.

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2014-06-27 19.56.24I order the mussel pasta, which was seriously one of the best pasta I ever had. And my hubby went for the grilled meat, which has a deep flavorful charred taste.

 Day 3

Since day 3 was a free day for us, we decided to go for the buggy ride (Hubby drive while I am the co-driver) that will bring us to the highest point for a bird eye view of Boracay. For the ATV, it is individual. It cost us about S$50 for this activity as well.

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Since I am pregnant, they actually gave me a cushion for the seat to reduce bumpiness. The road was also concrete and easy to ride.

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The ATV in front of us is our personal guide.

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And our view.. It was drizzling again hence the fuzzy picture.

After our ATV ride, we went to the market-D’ Talipapa. 2014-06-28 14.00.27 This is where you can haggle for fresh seafood, and cook immediately at one of the restaurants nearby for a small fee. These people can be rather aggressive. There are also alot of souvenir shops here, and cheaper than D’mall.

After shopping here, we got hungry again. Time for lunch! We chose this Filipino restaurant at Boracay Regency hotel, which is also highly raved.2014-06-28 14.38.10 2014-06-28 14.44.49Desperately in need of a refreshing drink heh! Lychee freeze! Hubby having banana milkshake.2014-06-28 14.43.06

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Ordered a pork wonton thingy, and their mixed grilled platter (seafood and meat). Pretty decent. But we couldn’t finish.

Weather clearing up so we decided to walk down the beach.

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2014-06-28 16.50.17Came across a wedding between ang moh and filipino. Romantic!

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Walked almost to the end of the beach, and found Jonah’s milkshake. Another must-try.

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I had the chocolate vanilla banana, and avocado for hubby. Tum tum can’t be fuller!2014-06-28 16.34.12

 

Came across this pub with fire dance performance. Very happening!2014-06-28 21.41.51

Went for a midnight spa to smooth the aching muscles. I highly recommend this massage place. Hubby did the whole body massage, while I do the leg reflexology safe for pregnant woman. There are also plenty of beach massages, but I do not trust their skills blah.

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2014-06-29 07.52.09The next morning, after a hearty hotel buffet breakfast, we took one last walk on the beach. And also got some of the famous calamansi muffins from Real Coffee before leaving.

And that ends our Boracay babymoon!

Overall, I think I would like Boracay more if the traveling time is shorter, and less commercial. It has already become so commercialized after tourists start to flock there, and the sea/land activities are overpriced. But it is a beautiful place nonetheless.

xoxo,

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Pregnancy week 20: Confirmed gender, pressure on bladder, leg cramps, increased appetite, active night baby

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We confirmed the gender of our baby this week, which means shopping spree for me whee! Actually I couldn’t resist and already bought some baby clothes at 16 weeks. Gynae is now 100% sure its a girl, and we can clearly see ‘3 lines’ on the ultrasound, which are the labial folds (a separate post on my 20 weeks detailed scanning). Her position is really weird during the ultrasound, like a crouching position. Maybe it is getting too cramp for her in there. But anyways, everything is normal and we are relieved that she is a healthy baby.

I have been feeling this intense pressure on my bladder, and causing me to go to toilet frequently. And everytime the volume is so little (sorry TMI haha). And I am using up so many rolls of toilet paper. rolleyes

Other than the frequent toilet visits, I have been feeling great. And my appetite is too good. I am trying to keep to the ideal calories count for second trimester, which is basically not eating too much more. But baby is making me hungry at around midnight-_-And my baby is either an owl or vampire, she is super active at night cool!

And I have been getting leg cramps when I wake up in the morning. I think the feared body/muscle aches and cramps are starting to kick in, which also coincides with my belly suddenly popping out. Baby’s growth should also accelerate now, putting the pressure on my body.

xoxo,

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Read this article if you are considering an all-natural birth

Undisturbed birth
Sarah Buckley

AIMS Journal, 2011, Vol 23 No 4

Sarah Buckley shows us what is stopping birth working
In modern Western countries, including Australia and the UK, rates of obstetric intervention have reached extreme levels, such that very few mothers and babies experience labour and birth without drugs and procedures to assist or hasten the process. This has led to the erroneous belief that human birth is an intrinsically faulty system, and that modern women have lost the ability to give birth.

However, our women’s bodies have their own wisdom, and our innate system of birth, refined over one hundred thousand generations, is not so easily overpowered. This system, which I am calling undisturbed birth1, has the evolutionary stamp of approval not only because it is safe and efficient for the vast majority of mothers and babies, but also because it incorporates our hormonal blueprint for ecstasy in birth. When birth is undisturbed, our birthing hormones can take us into ecstasy – outside (ec) our usual state (stasis) – so that we enter motherhood awakened and transformed. This is not just a good feeling; the post-birth hormones that suffuse the brains of a new mother and her baby also catalyse profound neurological changes. These changes give the new mother personal empowerment, physical strength, and an intuitive sense of her baby’s needs, and they prepare both partners for the pleasurable mutual dependency that will ensure a mother’s care and protection and her baby’s survival.

Undisturbed birth represents the smoothest hormonal orchestration of the birth process, and therefore the easiest transition possible; physiologically, hormonally, psychologically, and emotionally, from pregnancy and birth to new motherhood and lactation, for each woman. When a mother’s hormonal orchestration is undisturbed, her baby’s safety is also enhanced, not only during labour and birth, but also in the critical postnatal transition from womb to world. Furthermore, the optimal expression of a woman’s motherhood hormones, including the fierce protectiveness of her young, will ensure that her growing child is protected and well nurtured, adding another layer of evolutionary fitness to the process of undisturbed birth.

The hormones of birth
There are many hormones involved in mammalian birth, and our understanding of their complex orchestration is limited. This article focuses on the hormones oxytocin; beta-endorphin; the catecholamines (adrenaline and noradrenaline); and prolactin. As the hormones of love, pleasure and transcendence, excitement, and tender mothering, respectively, these form the major components of an ecstatic cocktail of hormones that nature prescribes to aid birthing mothers of all mammalian species. An optimal hormonal orchestration provides ease, pleasure, and safety during this time for mother and baby. Conversely, interference with this process will disrupt this delicate hormonal orchestration, making birth more difficult and painful, and potentially less safe. All of these hormones are produced primarily in the middle or mammalian brain, also called the limbic system or emotional brain. For birth to proceed optimally, this more primitive part of the brain needs to take precedence over our neocortex – our ‘new’ or higher brain – which is the seat of our rational mind. This shift in consciousness, which some have called ‘going to another planet’, is aided by (and also aids) the release of birthing hormones such as beta-endorphin, and is inhibited by circumstances that increase alertness, such as bright lighting, conversation, and expectations of rationality.

Mother Nature’s pragmatic and efficient principles dictate that these hormones should also help the baby at birth, and this is being increasingly confirmed by scientific research. This hormonal interdependence contradicts the common medical response to natural birth as the mother’s prizing of her own experience over her baby’s safety, and underlines the mutual dependency of mother and baby, even as they begin their physical separation.

Oxytocin
Oxytocin has been called the hormone of love because of its connection with sexual activity, orgasm, birth, and breastfeeding. In addition, oxytocin is produced in social situations such as sharing a meal, making it a hormone of altruism or, as Michel Odent regularly suggests, of ‘forgetting oneself ‘.
Oxytocin is also the most powerful uterotonic (contraction-causing) hormone, and its release is associated with the contractions of labour and birth in all mammalian species. Oxytocin is made in the hypothalamus, deep in the middle brain, and is released in pulses from the posterior pituitary into the bloodstream every three to five minutes during early labour, becoming more frequent as labour progresses.

The number of oxytocin receptors in a pregnant woman’s uterus increases substantially late in pregnancy, increasing her sensitivity to oxytocin. Oxytocin has also been shown to have a painkilling effect in rats and mice. Oxytocin catalyses the final powerful uterine contractions that help the mother to birth her baby quickly and easily. At this time, the baby’s descending head stimulates stretch receptors in a woman’s lower vagina, which trigger oxytocin release from her pituitary. This oxytocin release causes more contractions that promote more fetal descent, inducing more stretchreceptor stimulation and therefore even more release of pituitary oxytocin. This ‘positive feedback loop’ is also known as the Ferguson reflex.

After the birth, ongoing high levels of oxytocin, augmented by more pulses released as the baby touches, licks, and nuzzles the mother’s breast, help to keep her uterus contracted and so protect her against postpartum haemorrhage. Skin-to-skin and eye-to-eye contact between mother and baby also help to optimise oxytocin release. Blood oxytocin levels peak at around thirty minutes postpartum and subside towards the end of the first hour. Oxytocin levels in the brain, which switch on instinctive maternal behaviour, may be elevated for substantially longer.

Newborn oxytocin levels also peak at around thirty minutes after birth so that during the first hour after birth, both mother and baby are saturated with high levels of oxytocin, the hormone of love. Newborn babies have elevated levels of oxytocin for at least four days after birth, and oxytocin is also present in breastmilk.

During breastfeeding, oxytocin mediates the milkejection, or letdown, reflex and is released in pulses as the baby suckles. During the months and years of lactation, oxytocin continues to act to keep the mother relaxed and well nourished, by enhancing the efficiency of her digestion. Other studies indicate that oxytocin is also involved in cognition, tolerance, and adaptation, and researchers have recently found that oxytocin also acts as a cardiovascular hormone, with effects such as slowing the heart rate and reducing blood pressure.
Uvnas-Moberg describes a ‘relaxation and growth response’ to oxytocin release,2 which reflects its ability to turn on the parasympathetic nervous system, which is involved with digestion and growth, and to reduce activity in the sympathetic ‘fight-or-flight’ system. Malfunctions of the oxytocin system have been implicated in conditions such as schizophrenia, autism, cardiovascular disease, and drug dependency, and it has been suggested that oxytocin may mediate the antidepressant effect of drugs such as Prozac.

Beta-endorphin
Beta-endorphin is one of a group of naturally occurring opiates (drugs derived from the opium poppy), with properties similar to pethidine, morphine, and fentanyl, and has been shown to work on the same receptors of the brain. It is secreted from the pituitary gland under conditions of pain and stress, when it acts to restore homeostasis (physiological balance); for example, by acting as a natural painkiller. Beta-endorphin also activates the powerful mesocorticolimbic dopamine reward system, producing reward and pleasure in association with important reproductive activities including mating, birth, and breastfeeding. Beta-endorphin is also released during episodes of social and physical contact, reinforcing pro-social behaviours among all mammals.

Like the addictive opiates, beta-endorphin reduces the effects of stress and induces feelings of pleasure, euphoria, and dependency. Beta-endorphin levels, as measured in the mother’s bloodstream, increase throughout labour, peaking at the time of birth, and subsiding in the first one to three hours. Levels in the new mother’s limbic system are elevated for much longer, as beta-endorphin takes more than twenty-one hours to break down within the brain and cerebrospinal fluid (CSF).

In labour, such high levels help the labouring woman to transcend pain, as she enters the altered state of consciousness that characterises an undisturbed birth. In the hours after birth, elevated beta-endorphin levels reward and reinforce mother-baby interactions, including physical contact and breastfeeding, as well as contributing to intensely pleasurable, even ecstatic, feelings for both.
Beta-endorphin is also important in breastfeeding. Levels peak in the mother twenty minutes after commencement, and beta-endorphin is also present in breastmilk. Researchers have found higher levels, at four days postpartum, in the breastmilk of mothers who have had a normal birth, compared with caesarean mothers; they speculate that this extra dose of beta-endorphin is designed to help the newborn with the stressful transition to life outside the womb.
Beta-endorphin, as a component of ongoing motherbaby interactions, induces a pleasurable mutual dependency for both partners, reinforcing and rewarding behaviours such as breastfeeding and physical contact that are associated with long-term well-being and survival.

Catecholamines
The fight-or-flight hormones adrenaline and noradrenaline (epinephrine and norepinephrine in US literature) are part of the group of hormones known as catecholamines (CAs) and are produced by the body in response to stresses such as hunger, fear, and cold, as well as excitement. Together they stimulate the sympathetic nervous system for fight or flight.

During labour, maternal CA levels slowly and gradually rise, peaking around transition. However, high adrenaline levels in early labour, which reflect activation of the woman’s fight-or-flight system in response to fear or a perception of danger, have been shown to inhibit uterine contractions, therefore slowing or even stopping labour. Noradrenaline also acts to reduce blood flow to the uterus and placenta and therefore to the baby.

This reflex makes sense for mammals birthing in the wild, where the presence of danger would activate the fight-or-flight response, inhibiting labour and diverting blood to the major muscle groups so the mother can fight or, more likely, flee to safety. In humans, high levels of adrenaline have been associated with longer labour and adverse fetal heart rate (FHR) patterns, which indicate that the baby is low in oxygen (hypoxic), consistent with CA-mediated reductions in uterine blood flow.

Research has also shown that very high CA levels can paradoxically stimulate uterine contractions, which may contribute to the fetus ejection reflex. According to Odent, this reflex occurs at transition, or perhaps even earlier in labour, and almost always follows an undisturbed birth, perhaps because low CA levels in early labour are necessary for its full expression. The mother experiences a sudden and enormous increase in CA levels, giving her a rush of energy and strength; she will be upright and alert, with a dry mouth and shallow breathing and perhaps the urge to grasp something. She may express fear, anger, or excitement, and the CA surge will produce, in concert with high oxytocin levels (associated with the Ferguson reflex), several very strong and irresistible contractions that will birth her baby quickly and easily.

After the birth, the new mother’s CA levels drop steeply. If she is not helped to warm up, the cold-related stress will keep her CA levels high, which will inhibit her uterine contractions and therefore increase her risk of postpartum haemorrhage.

For the baby also, labour is an exciting and stressful event, reflected in increasing CA levels. In labour these hormones have a very beneficial effect, protecting the baby from the effects of hypoxia (lack of oxygen) and subsequent acidosis by redistributing cardiac output (blood supply) and by increasing the capacity for anaerobic glycolysis (metabolism of glucose at low oxygen levels).

The baby experiences a marked surge in CA hormones, especially noradrenaline, close to the time of birth, probably triggered by pressure on the head. This surge plays a very important role in the baby’s adaptation to extrauterine life. It aids newborn metabolism by increasing levels of glucose and free fatty acids, which protect the newborn’s brain from the low blood sugar that can occur in the early newborn period when the baby loses the placental supplies of glucose.

In addition, catecholamines enhance respiratory adaptation to life outside the womb by increasing the absorption of amniotic fluid from the lungs and stimulating surfactant release. Surfactant is essential for smooth inflation of the newborn lungs. CAs also assist with the necessary newborn shift to nonshivering thermogenesis (heat production), increase cardiac contractility, stimulate breathing, and enhance responsiveness and tone in the newborn.

High CA levels at birth also ensure that the baby is wide-eyed and alert at first contact with the mother. The baby’s CA levels also drop steeply after an undisturbed birth, being soothed by contact with the mother, but noradrenaline levels remain elevated above normal for the first twelve hours. High newborn noradrenaline levels, triggered by a normal birth, have been shown to enhance olfactory learning during this period, helping the newborn to learn the mother’s smell.

Prolactin
Prolactin, known as the mothering or nesting hormone, is released from the pituitary gland during pregnancy and lactation. Prolactin is named for its well-known prolactation effects, preparing a pregnant woman’s breasts for lactation and acting postnatally as the major hormone of breastmilk synthesis.
Prolactin levels increase throughout pregnancy, helping to organise the expectant mother’s brain for maternity. Prolactin’s lactogenic (milk-producing) effect is blocked during pregnancy by high levels of progesterone, produced by the baby’s placenta. When progesterone levels drop with the birth of the placenta, prolactin can begin stimulating milk production.

Prolactin levels decline during labour, reaching the lowest point when the labouring woman’s cervix is fully dilated. Prolactin then rises again steeply in the moments after birth, perhaps due to stimulation of the mother’s cervix during birth, reaching peak levels in the following two to three hours. After this, levels decline again slowly and reach another nadir from nine to twenty-four hours postpartum.

This postpartum maternal surge in prolactin provides maximum levels, available to brain and body, in the hour or so after birth. This elevation may be important in optimising maternal behaviours at this time, as well as ensuring successful lactation.

Animal studies show that prolactin release is also increased by carrying infants, and its association with paternal nurturing (including in humans) has earned it the added title ‘the hormone of paternity.’ Human studies have shown that just before the birth, fathers-to-be have elevated prolactin levels, which parallel the rise of prolactin in their partners. New fathers with higher prolactin levels are more responsive to newborn cries.

In summary
Mother Nature’s superb design is hard-wired into our female bodies, providing an elaborate orchestration of hormones to enhance ease, pleasure and safety in labour, birth and postpartum. These hormones also ensure an ideal start to, and ongoing pleasure and reward from, breastfeeding and attachment, optimising well-being and survival for mother and offspring in the medium and long terms.
The full expression of these labouring hormones requires specific conditions: that the labouring mother feels private, safe and unobserved. This basic need is recognised by traditional systems of maternity care, which prioritise the emotional well-being of the labouring woman and ensure that she is cared for in a familiar place with known and trusted helpers. These factors will keep her as calm and relaxed as possible, and her adrenaline levels low.

Conversely, if she is not feeling private, safe and unobserved in labour, her adrenaline levels will increase, slowing labour and decreasing blood and oxygen supply to the baby and leading to fetal distress for vulnerable babies. Our current maternity care system does not done for slow labour and fetal distress. Interventions used for these indications such as synthetic oxytocin and caesarean surgery can further interfere with the hormonal orchestration for mother and baby, creating a cascade of intervention and depriving both of the ideal start that Mother Nature intends.

As Professor Kloosterman states so eloquently: ‘Spontaneous labour in a normal woman is an event marked by a number of processes so complicated and so perfectly attuned to each other that any interference will only detract from the optimal character. The only thing required from the bystanders is that they show respect for this awe-inspiring process by complying with the first rule of medicine – nil nocere [do no harm].’

xoxo,

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Guide to Baby Expo/Baby Fairs/Baby Exhibition 2014

After I passed the first trimester and baby is stable, I started going on a baby shopping frenzy. I used to like shopping for myself, now I am only interested in buying stuff for my baby heehee. And OMG, there are just so many things that a baby needs, and I swear I am planning on getting only the essentials.

 

To kick-start my shopping spree, of course must go for baby expo and baby fairs. This is when all the vendors come together, offer great discounts and you can compare everything to get the best value. Somemore, some fairs got like some crazy time sale, and the prices are really really cheap. I once talked to an event organiser for baby fairs, and he said that the organisers actually buy these items at a discount from suppliers, and sell at even lower prices during the baby fair to entice the crowd to come in.

 

The events I went so far are:

1) Baby Expo 2014 (20-22th June)

I think this event is held multiple times a year. Went to the June one, then saw that July 25th-27th have another one. But I have to say it is quite disappointing. Not many vendors as we expected, so not much choices. Therefore, I wouldn’t make a trip down, petrol, crazy parking and all, for this event.

http://www.babyexpo.com.sg/

 

2) Baby Baby Exhibition (4th to 6th July)

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Awesome event. There is a crazy 2pm sales going on, and the queue actually starts forming at 11am I heard! Each item has limited pieces, so whether you manage to get what you want depends on what the people in front of you are buying. Each adult is limited to only 1 item.

When I heard about this event, there are so many things I wanted: Car Seat, Sterilizer combo set, Vacuum and Microwave. I grabbed my mum, reached at around 130pm. Only managed to get the Car Seat @ $60. Goodie bag worth $30+ was also distributed for early birds.

I also got some cheap and good quality rompers and swaddles from this event 🙂

 

There are many other exciting upcoming events. I think I’m going for the Baby Market (2-5th Oct 2014) [http://www.babymarket.com.sg/index.php]

Check back this space for more updates on baby events!

xoxo,

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Using the Chinese Gender Calender to predict baby gender? Accurate!

 

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After I knew I was pregnant, we were excited to know whether we are having a boy or girl. So, I was searching online, where there are many old wives tales on how to predict gender. One of them is the Chinese Gender Calender. Claimed to be passed down from the ancient times (700 years old), and 95% accurate.

However, many were confusing because it requires you to know your Chinese lunar age. I finally found one that requires you to input your year of birth instead:

http://www.prokerala.com/kids/baby-gender/chinese-gender-predictor.php

I tried it before knowing the gender, and it says team PINK!

Haha, now that I know the gender, apparently, this was accurate for me. I did a poll on a singapore mummies forum, and guess what, although only 10 people took the test, it was accurate for 8 out of 10. Impressive!

Try it out too and comment below whether it was accurate for ya *winks

xoxo,

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16 weeks gender reveal!

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Went for our routine 16 weeks checkup and scan. Typically during the second trimester without complications, we will see the gynae once a month. I can’t wait to see my baby each time, but I have to trust that my baby is developing well in my uterus and stop worrying.

My gynae refused to tell us the gender at 12 weeks, as he says that the genitals are swollen in both boys and girls, and could go either way. His practice is not to give false hope/buy the wrong color of baby apparels/tell everyone the wrong gender, until he can be relatively sure. Therefore, even though my hubby was very keen to know at our last visit, we decided to wait it out.

Fast forward to our 16 weeks checkup, immediately we see a hyperactive kicking baby in my uterus lying on his/her back. The gynae did a quick measurement of the head circumference, as the CRL is no longer accurate for measurement with the baby curled up in the small space. Everything measures fine, and baby is growing well.

Then the gynae asked whether we want to know the gender, is there any preference, is it a sensitive issue etc, haha.

Before I was pregnant, I have been telling my hubby that I want a boy. And my hubby was jokingly saying that if we got a girl, he would ‘bao to’ me to our child that I didn’t want her. But when I am really pregnant, and everything is now so real, I don’t even care. All I want is a healthy baby!

And then we look in between the legs..

Drumroll.. It’s a GIRL!

I was so overwhelmed and bursting with joy. She’s so cute and I didn’t realise I could love another being so much even before I see her.

Gynae is 90% sure, and he is one experienced gynae. So I am gonna take his word for it.

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Time to go shopping for all the girly stuff! 🙂

xoxo,

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Pregnancy week 16: Feeling great, first baby kicks and movements, baby bump, baby girl?, baby hauls

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This week marks the best week of my pregnancy ever wink. My morning sickness is completely gone by now, and my appetite has returned to pre-pregnancy. I can move around really fast and go about doing my daily activities without even feeling pregnant. This is in stark contrast to the zombie life I was living a few weeks ago!

I started to feel flutters and weird sensations of kicking in my belly, and I’m pretty sure its the baby’s movements. I thought I felt her when I was 12 weeks pregnant, but now that I’m feeling the real thing, I believe those from before are just stomach gas and my wild imaginations heehee. Initially, I was apprehensive about feeling something moving within me. I am worried that I might not get used to the idea of something growing within me. Like those horror movies where aliens were growing in the tummy and then burst out.  But lucky thing is that pregnancy is gradual, and your mind and body will be well-prep as pregnancy progresses.

And finally my belly is starting to show. My colleagues and family have been commenting about how I don’t look pregnant. I don’t even get seats in the MRT, unless I start to rub my belly, and some people still look at me in a weird way. Awkward moments eek.

And we know the gender from the gynae, although it is unconfirmed yet until the 20 weeks detailed scan. It’s a GIRL!

Started buying baby essentials like bathing items, feeding items, baby gym, automatic swing etc. And some baby clothes heh, just couldn’t resist!

xoxo,

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